Autumn self care tips. 12 Easy ways to keep yourself well this Autumn

What is burnout?

Burnout can be defined as mental, physical, and emotional exhaustion caused by extreme stress or constant pressure, often over a lengthy period of time. It usually comes with a lack of motivation, and even the most enjoyable things in life lose their appeal. If you’ve ever wished the world could stop so you could get off for a while, you may well be suffering with some form of burnout. 

What causes burnout? 

Feeling like you have a lot of pressure, a stressful job, not enough hours in the day, not enough time to enjoy hobbies. Pressure you put yourself under to do a great job or be perfect can also lead to burn out. Masking to fit in with others in society can also lead to burnout. Having a lot of deadlines close together without any reprieve can also cause burnout. 

Physically people may burn out when they’re doing too much exercise, not getting enough sleep and /or not having regular healthy meals. 

How do I avoid burnout?

Firstly see if there is anything you can delegate to someone else – do you have to do everything on your list yourself? Often we can lessen our workloads by outsourcing things we don’t need to do ourselves to someone else. This may also include hiring a gardener or a cleaner (or both!)

If you’re struggling at work with your workload or are struggling to understand what is expected of you it may help to speak to your manager or supervisor to get their support and understanding. They may be able to lighten your load in some way.

Secondly ensure that you get the things you physically need. Enough sleep, plenty of good quality protein, fruit and vegetables. Staying hydrated. If you hate drinking water try adding something to it to make it taste better like a slice of lemon, or lime or cucumber. Or add ice or have it hot. 

Give yourself enough headspace and blank slots in the diary. We all need time to unwind, rest, potter and socialise. If your diary is looking too full see what you can cross out of it so you have time to do the things you love.

If possible have early nights or at least time each evening to unwind. Maybe switch off the tv, dim the lighting a little bit, put on some soft music or some candles and just breathe deeply.

The other week I was feeling a bit burned out so I got myself a jigsaw from the charity shop, put on a podcast and made a cup of tea and had a super chilled out evening mindfully putting the puzzle pieces in the right place! 

Think about what nourishes you emotionally and spiritually. Who and what makes your heart sing or set your soul on fire? Do more of the things that make you happy and avoid things that are negative for the sake of being negative. So switch off the news channels and unfollow the negative people from social media. Unfollow friends who always moan on social media.

Have something to look forward to – could be days out, meeting friends for coffee or lunch, play time for arts and crafting, trips to the coast, holidays, concerts or time to simply do nothing! 

What do I do if I burn out?

Cancel everything you can possibly cancel! Sometimes we just need to have a deep rest and reset.

Eat light foods that are nourishing and comforting. Cocoon yourself in a blanket. Go for walks or swims and get some fresh air. Take as many naps as you need. Watch funny movies, put on some cartoons. do some crafting. But be gentle on yourself and allow yourself the time to simply be for a while. Don’t push yourself to do anything strenuous. Talk nicely to yourself like you would talk to your best friend. Go gently. Keep stimulation to a minimum. If necessary dim the lights and put on soft music. Do the bare minimum you need to do to get through each day until you start to feel better.

Focus on getting plenty of sleep. Sleep helps to restore us and is great for the soul. You may need to invest in some blackout blinds or heavy curtains, or to buy a pillow mist, play a sleep podcast, get some different bedding – experiment with pillow heights and heavy blankets, often we need weighing down and the right pillow in order for us to be able to sleep effectively.

If you’re waking up in the night try having a little light supper before bed, especially something that involves some protein and carbohydrates. Having a set routine to going to bed and getting up again can be helpful as can having set meal times.

Have a series of massages, reflexology treatments or reiki sessions to unwind and support you. Managing stress is key with burnout. Alternatively look into mindfulness classes or something relaxing like yoga nidra.

Once you start to feel less burned out and feel like you’re on the road to recovery think about how you’d like your life to look. What would that look like? What steps can you take to make it happen? Sometimes we need to tweak things a little bit in order to create a life that supports and nourishes us.

This may include working fewer hours or changing roles entirely. Or it could involve giving up a volunteering role, or looking for something more in alignment with your current values and aspirations! It could be starting a new hobby or side hustle giving you a renewed sense of purpose. Often when we get burned out we lose that motivation and our va va voom! Having a really good reason to get out of bed on a morning can help ease burnout. 

Things to try:

Try my chicken and leek soup recipe for something that’s restorative https://www.mamacoopskitchen.co.uk/chicken-and-leek-soup/

 

Read my articles on sleep 

How long does burnout take to pass over?

This largely depends on the individual and how burned out they were. If you have a mild case of burnout it may pass over in as little as a few weeks but more extreme cases may take months or even years to pass over. 

How do I ensure burnout doesn’t happen again?

Whilst there are no guarantees that it won’t happen again, watch out for the warning signs, the sinking into mental, physical and emotional exhaustion and notice when motivation starts to dwindle and top up your levels with things that you love doing and attempt to delegate anything you as an individual don’t need to do yourself. Ensure that you always have something to look forward to and enough sleep, rest, exercise, water and good food. If you do find yourself heading towards burnout go gently on yourself for a while until it goes away again!

 

Autumn self care tips

As Autumn draws in it can be a good time to slow down a little and to enjoy a slightly calmer pace of life.

Looking after ourselves is also important as it helps keep us fit and healthy and helps us fight off common colds and flu. If we’re in tip top condition we can then help others to our maximum potential.

Here are my top 12 Easy Autumn self care tips

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Release what is no longer working for you

Traditionally autumn is a time of shedding, pruning and paring back to good wood and we too may find it useful to think about what is still serving us, and what needs to be pared away or dropped altogether.

With the slightly slower pace of life we might find we have time to think about small changes we can make so we’re kinder to ourselves and starting to acknowledge our own needs. Where we take the pressure off ourselves physically, mentally and emotionally and cut ourselves some slack.

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Manage your stress levels

Stress can cause problems if not carefully managed. Try taking a little time each day to unwind properly.

Try keeping a journal or an art journal or simply a sketchbook and some watercolour paints so you can play and experiment whilst watching the tv! Or take up an absorbing hobby and find time in your week for it.

If possible give yourself a little ‘white space’ in your diary where you have nothing planned, so you can potter around and rest if you need to or do those little jobs that you’ve been putting off, but at a slower pace so they’re done properly. We all need space to ‘breathe’

Write down a list of what is worrying you and then write a solution to what you could do to resolve the situation – often that is enough to calm your stress levels back down to a sensible level!

Having a good book or a magazine on the go can also be helpful, as can listening to music, podcasts, audio books etc. What you need is something to capture your attention completely, so it takes your mind off whatever you’re stressing about!

Invest in a course of Reflexology, Reiki or Massage treatments – to keep your stress levels at bay.

Book your appointment by going to https://www.sarahcooper.co.uk/book

 

Read more about managing your stress levels https://www.sarahcooper.co.uk/7-great-ways-to-reduce-your-stress-levels/

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Get outside during daylight hours – preferably each morning

If you find that your body clock is a bit out of kilter or you find that you’re struggling to sleep, try getting out for a walk, do some gardening or even just sit in the garden first thing.

Daylight helps you produce the right hormones to help you sleep. Exercise is also good for unwinding tired minds and that in turn can help you to sleep.

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Have a good night time routine to help you sleep

Have a good night time routine which helps you to unwind after a busy day.

Write a list of everything you need to remember tomorrow so you’re not trying to keep it in the forefront of your mind.

Aim to go to bed and get up at the same times each day

Start your wind-down routine from the minute dinner is over.

Having low level lighting and avoiding caffeine after 2pm can help.

Read my article on Bedtime Rituals to help you sleep

https://www.sarahcooper.co.uk/effective-bedtime-rituals-to-help-you-sleep/

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Snuggle up and get cosy!

The darker nights are perfect for curling up with a good book or for spending time on hobbies that we don’t have time for during the lighter summer months.

Or for lighting some scented candles, creating a cosy environment and for snuggling up under a blanket.

Invite your friends around for a cosy night in and do some crafting or make cookies or make some soup together.

For some of my fabulous soup recipes go to https://www.mamacoopskitchen.co.uk/soups

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Have some fun

It may be possible for us to find a way of incorporating more fun into our lives, to be a bit playful, to experiment and grow but also to deeply rest.

Alternatively watch a funny film, or watch some comedy programmes on the tv. Or just experiment with a new recipe, go a different way to work or pick something new off the menu at your favourite restaurant.

Or try doing something completely new for an afternoon.!

Autumn Self Care tips skin care

 Take care of your skin

Remember to do your skin care routine, using a good quality moisturiser with an added spf factor of 30 and have a weekly exfoliate and face mask. 

Use a lip balm to keep your lips supple. Stay hydrated as this will help your skin too.

You can incorporate some facial reflexology moves into your skin care routine. Ask me if you’d like me to show you some moves you can include

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 Eat a healthy balanced diet and stay hydrated

By eating a healthy, balanced diet full of wholegrains, fruit and vegetables, nuts, seeds and healthy fats we can keep our gut healthy which in turn helps with your immunity.

Eating a diet rich in protein, fibre and whole grains can also help stabilise blood sugar and keep anxiety at bay.

Keeping hydrated is important for allowing our cells to function as effectively as possible and can help us flush out any potential viruses and infections. It can also help with focus and concentration.

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Notice what is around you

Try to notice the little things in life. The way the sun shines on the trees, the colours, the sunrises and sunsets, the crunch of leaves under foot, the feeling of the wind blowing your hair. It’s easy to go about daily life without noticing the things that make a difference!

Challenge: On a nice day go sit in the garden for 5 mins and do NOTHING apart from notice what you can see, hear, smell, feel and touch.

 

You don’t need to set a timer for this – if you do chances are after 2 mins and 24 seconds you’ll be looking to see if your time is up.

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Keep a gratitude journal

Each day think of 3 things you’re grateful for in your life. Keep adding to it and every so often read through your list. It is good for boosting your mood and keeping you focused on the good stuff in life.

Often we get tangled up in how bad things are or how things are tough going without remembering how many things we have to be thankful for.

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Have a digital detox

We can spend way too much time faffing aimlessly on our phones with endless notifications telling us someone has liked our comment or added a photo. Often if you switch  your phone off for a day you come back to find that nothing really important has happened.

Try leaving your phone downstairs overnight so you’re not tempted to scroll aimlessly at 3am and if you are able to, try keeping your phone on silent for most of the day unless you’re actively expecting a phone call.

You could delete or offload your social media apps on your phone so you have to actively log into the main website if you want to scroll.

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Take some vitamin D (if you need to!)

The NHS recommends that we take vitamin D during the winter months as it is fairly unlikely that we’re going to get enough from daylight or food sources on its own.

To read more about why we should take vitamin D and the recommended doses go to https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/vitamins-and-minerals/vitamin-d/

About Sarah Cooper

I am a Reflexologist, Aromatherapist, Reiki Master Practitioner, Massage Therapist and Writer from Boroughbridge, North Yorkshire. I love writing about Health and Wellbeing, Mind Body Spirit and Reflexology. When I'm not at work, you can find me in the kitchen cooking up a storm!

If you'd like to book a treatment please go to https://www.sarahcooper.co.uk/book

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